Main Answer
John 13:34-35 means that Jesus makes His own love the pattern for relationships among His disciples. Their love for one another becomes part of the public witness that they belong to Him.
The command comes during the final meal after Jesus has washed the disciples’ feet and after Judas has gone out. The cross is close, so ‘as I have loved you’ carries the weight of self-giving service.
Christian love is active. It listens, serves and tells the truth for another person’s good rather than existing mainly as warm feeling.
The command does not mean Christians must agree about every practical question or give unlimited access to every person. Jesus’s love includes truth and purposeful boundaries.
For a related free study, read What Does Ephesians 5 Teach About Marriage?.
For a fuller guided study, see Uncovering Faith: A Christian Devotional on Christian Relationships (available to our members also).
The Extra Study below stays with John 13:31-35, checks the most likely misuse of the passage and develops a practical response for ordinary Christian life.
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